A curious thing: As The Phantom sails on into the sunset years, he expected he would emerge from the mists into a clear stream, and he would see things which were obscure in his callow youth. But, he is still as confused and uncertain as he ever was.
One of the most perplexing things has to do with mastery. With all the talk about "Tiger Moms" and the importance of imparting one generation's hard won knowledge to the next, so the next generation can stand on the shoulders of its predecessors and reach new ground, it is not at all clear, to the Phantom at least, how much this really happens.
This is the old "nature vs nurture" thing, to some extent. But it is more a question about how much brilliance we can teach and how much is simply found?
And there is the question of how much "talent" even with training, can to bring people to new places.
And there is the question of how much "talent" even with training, can to bring people to new places.
Watching children, boys mainly, start wrestling at age seven, there were clearly those who had coordination, strength, quickness, aggressiveness, and these boys won matches and succeeded, but the adult coaches would simply smile and shake their heads and say, "There's only so far athleticism can take you."
They could look at a nine year old and analyze what attributes he was using to win, and know whether those would serve him to get him to the next level.
The coaches could point to other kids, who were scrawny and not currently successful, and they could say, "If that kid does not get discouraged, he'll be a champion, eventually, when he bulks up."
Later, as boys progressed trough puberty and beyond, some of the mostly untutored "beasts" did win state championships, but these were usually the boys who remained small, who were still wrestling at 120 pounds when they were eighteen year old seniors, beating fourteen year old freshmen. None of the 140 pounders who made it to the championship matches were doing this on strength and quickness alone.
The champions had all been taught, trained, drilled by adults who imparted the science of wrestling to these kids. But not all of these kids, much as they mastered the science, could win. The kids who won, took what they were taught and used it, but they did something more with it.
And there was also the problem that some coaches knew the "real" stuff and others did not. Everyone claimed to "know" but not everyone did.
They could look at a nine year old and analyze what attributes he was using to win, and know whether those would serve him to get him to the next level.
The coaches could point to other kids, who were scrawny and not currently successful, and they could say, "If that kid does not get discouraged, he'll be a champion, eventually, when he bulks up."
Later, as boys progressed trough puberty and beyond, some of the mostly untutored "beasts" did win state championships, but these were usually the boys who remained small, who were still wrestling at 120 pounds when they were eighteen year old seniors, beating fourteen year old freshmen. None of the 140 pounders who made it to the championship matches were doing this on strength and quickness alone.
The champions had all been taught, trained, drilled by adults who imparted the science of wrestling to these kids. But not all of these kids, much as they mastered the science, could win. The kids who won, took what they were taught and used it, but they did something more with it.
And there was also the problem that some coaches knew the "real" stuff and others did not. Everyone claimed to "know" but not everyone did.
Listen to baseball coaches teach hitting. You'll hear all sorts of contradictory things: Weight on the back foot, weight on the front.
Presumably, Baryshnikov, and those spectacular gymnasts, cello players, Broadway stars, all accepted and incorporated training, but went beyond it. The success of the stars is claimed by their teachers and their coaches as validation the coaches knew what they were talking about. But do these masters succeed because of what they were taught, or was what they learned only oil in the gears--gears fashioned elsewhere?
There is a wonderful story about Stevie Wonder showing up at Motown's Detroit Studio at age 16 and telling everybody how grateful he was to the musicians who allowed him to jam with them. "Oh, I've learned so much here today. This has been so wonderful. Thank you so much for teaching me."
And one of the old musicians, who is telling this story, looks at the camera, recalling all this and says, deadpan, "Believe me: We didn't have nothin' to teach that boy."
A resident training in vascular surgery recently told me: The well kept secret of surgery is that anyone can do it. It's just a matter of who is willing to practice enough. That's the 10,000 hour track you hear from musicians. Want to be Sonny Rollins or Coltrane? You got to put in 10,000 hours of practice. But, as the Phantom can readily attest, he could practice 10,000 hours and only improve--he will never play piano better than fair.
The Phantom's older son, looking at his younger brother, age 10, ripping through his opponents methodically at a wrestling tournament, shook his 12 year old head and said, "No matter what I do in life, I will never be as good at anything as he is at this, right now."
Of course, the older son was wrong about that. The older son was neglecting his own talents as a kayaker and as a musician. You cannot wend your way through class 5 rapids in a kayak without being awfully good at kayaking.
But what allows someone to know investing those 10,000 hours will be worth it?
How does someone know he is capable of kayaking down Great Falls and surviving?
Why is it that musicians tend to come from families of musicians? Is it music genes or mostly exposure, encouragement lots of loving nurture?
What is it that van Gogh knew about his own talent which allowed him to devote his life to his art?
George W. Bush is a better artist than he was a President. But, of course, that is an invidious comparison. George W is probably a better auto mechanic than he was a President. He was a better student than he was a President.
Phantom,
ReplyDeleteWhen you said your son did kayaking I didn't realize it included whitewater kayaking. Has he ever gone kayaking at Great Falls? These photos look terrifying-I love the water and have gone white water rafting and thought it was exhilarating-but this is something else all together. I think I might prefer being shot out of a cannon...
I'm certain, Phantom, you'd have many pearls of wisdom you could go back and tell your "callow" youthful self, but I agree some things do remain perplexing. How much brilliance can be taught and how much is found is one of those confounding questions. It seems each of us are a different mixture or cocktail of nature and nurture and how much we rely on one or the other seems individual. But there's a third component, luck, which appears equally essential and influential don't you think? What we achieve-or don't -is dependent upon how well these three coalesce, they're all necessary pieces to the puzzle.
I do always wonder like you though, which comes first-the chicken or the egg-nature or nurture? Your son, the kayaker, was able to do something most people will never do because he had training, but also because he was willing to take a risk, granted a calculated risk, but still a risk. Did that confidence and courage to take a chance come from the training and encouragement your wife and you provided or did he already have that component to his personality? Training, or nurture, is key, as the vascular surgeon you spoke to explained, but that is also an endeavor not for the faint hearted-plunging over a cliff of white water is a risk but so is plunging into another human's veins. There's something more there that allows one the confidence to do this, even after 10,000 hours of training.
As for those superstars-Shakespeare, Van Gogh, Mozart, Dylan, maybe they were just a good roll of the dice-everything just came together in a way that produced something extraordinary. As they say, we all have greatness in us-or the possibility of it anyway. How many other potential greats came and went from this world because they started things to late or to early, didn't find the right muse or the right medium, didn't start things at all?
You're right, Bush is a better painter than he was President. He does show some talent there doesn't he, but as Jon Stewart pointed out the other night, how different would things have been for "W" and the rest of us had he discovered painting 20 years earlier...
Maud
Maud,
ReplyDeleteOf course, Hitler tried painting first, failed and then moved on. Had the art critics of Germany only been more enthusiastic, perhaps he would have been mollified and never felt the need to vent and to kill Jews. But, I suspect, some other maniac would have simply written his own version of Mein Kampf and done the same thing.
Of course, I forbade my son to go off Great Falls. But all his friends were doing it. It was a rite of passage. So the next week, I got a photo of his going off the ledge.
Three people have died within the past five years taking that plunge. All were accomplished enough to want to try it.
You can only control your kids so much, as my own parents discovered.
Just another reason I was happy to leave the Potomac for Seacoast New Hampshire. (Of course, now he takes his kayak to the Hampton beaches.) And living 10 miles from ground zero has been replaced by being 2 miles from Seabrook.
But New Hampshire is such a treat. We went to Ireland a few years ago, and it was beautiful, stark, dramatic, windswept, with wonderful brooding ocean beaches. Just like New Hampshire.
Mad Dog
Phantom,
ReplyDeleteOn a trip to Ireland in my 20's, I said the one thing I really wanted to do was go horse back riding. Not that I was some skilled equestrian-definitely not, I'd only been on trail rides and taken some lessons riding around in a ring but I enjoyed it, so through a friend, it was arranged and we ended up at what once was a country house and now was an inn with stables.They trotted out a much larger, more lively horse than I'd ever been on at home and a young woman, about the same age I was, arrived to be my "guide" and she didn't look to happy about it. Once we were away from the house, in the fields, she really took off and I was having a hard time keeping up and staying mounted. I wasn't sure if she misunderstood my skill level or had just taken an immediate dislike to me, but before I knew it we were charging-and I do mean charging -up this steep hill. I figured I was going to tell her off if I survived, but then we reached the top and there was the ocean. You've been there so you can imagine how spectacular it was and as we rode along the ridge I was figuring the near death experience was worth it. But, I agree, I've also looked out at several places in New Hampshire and been equally blown away by the view. How lucky are we....
Maud
Maud,
ReplyDeleteA wonderful story. As Hemingway noted, sometimes what makes a story work is what is left out.
In your case, we never find out why this lady behaved as she did, what happened after you crested the hill and saw the view. All you focus on is the experience of the ride and the reward.
One paragraph, nicely done.
Phantom